The decision to move in with your boyfriend is one of the biggest ones you can make in your relationship. Therefore, it should not be taken lightly and must be thought through. Think of cohabitation with your boyfriend as a stepping stone towards marriage.
If you don’t think of it that way, then what happens? An awful, heartbreaking split that will leave both parties distraught. Unlike any other breakups, a breakup after cohabitation is especially devastating because someone has to move out. That painful process of moving out after cohabitation won’t be a quick and easy one.
When it comes to domestic life, each zodiac sign has different needs in their partners for cohabitation. Some signs need more space and freedom where others need more intimacy and time from their partners. Some of these sets of expectations will clash with their partner’s sets of expectations.
Before you even think about moving in with your boyfriend, make sure you know the type of person he is and have a clear idea of what it’s going to be like living under the same roof. That way, you know what you are signing up for when you agree to sign that lease and make it official.
Here are the 14 zodiac combinations that are not meant for cohabitation.
14. Leo & Scorpio – Conflict Of Interest
When it comes to physical intimacy, Scorpio and Leo are actually an amazing match because their chemistry will be off the charts. These are both passionate people, but both are fixed signs so that means that they have to have it their way. The combination of self-determination and passion will lead to some explosion if they are to go down the road of cohabitation.
Though both signs put on a facade of being agreeable and “go with the flow”, they are actually both confrontational when they want to be. The Scorpio has their stinger and the Leo lion has their load roar that will shake everything to its foundation. The Leo has a need for attention and admiration, and the Scorpio will get annoyed with their need for ego-stroking. The Leo will perceive that as the Scorpio not caring enough and assume that they don’t love them anymore (even if that is clearly not the case).
13. Capricorn & Aries – Constant Power Struggle
The Capricorn and the Aries will be drawn to each other initially because they some of the most ambitious signs in the zodiac. However, they have completely different goals and lifestyles that they are trying to achieve. The Aries likes to make quick and sometimes impulsive decisions and the Capricorn might look down on that as being irresponsible. Capricorns are collective about their decision-making process and have a need for security, structure and stability.
If they take too long and take their sweet precious time to come to a conclusion, this will irritate the Aries and make them impatient. They are both career-oriented, but they have different ideas about the way money is spent. Capricorns like to save money and make sure that all of their bases are covered where the Aries likes to spend money as soon as they get it. This will make the Capricorn feel as if the Aries does not respect the budget that they both share.
12. Taurus & Sagittarius – Nothing In Common
The Taurus and Sagittarius have a different set of values that makes them feel fulfilled and happy. Those sets of values will create a conflict of interest, and therefore a conflict in the relationship. The sign of a Taurus is a powerful sign that is strong, loyal but a little on the possessive side.
The Sagittarius does not like to live in a little bubble and just wants adventure and fun times throughout their life. Their need to roam will make the domesticated Taurus feel weary and wonder what they are up to when they are not around. The Sagittarius is a big risk taker when it comes to making decisions and that will make the cautious Taurus uncomfortable, especially when it comes to matters dealing with finances.
11. Libra & Pisces – Can’t Face Reality
There is always much chemistry between a Libra and Pisces because they are both romantic and whimsical people who love to indulge in a fantasy world that only the two of them have created. They will enjoy each other’s company and the romance between the two will be nothing short of magical. The problems arise when neither parties want to address serious issues and try to escape the confrontation rather than addressing it.
Once they move in together, the fun times will begin until they come to a screeching halt. Which is all fine and dandy except when the real world starts to come calling and they don’t want to acknowledge it. This self-made fantasy world will act a a guise to real problems in the relationship. This will eventually lead to both parties feeling like they are not on the same page anymore.
10. Aries & Cancer – Dousing Out Fire
When an Aries and Cancer live together, there will be two sets of expectations that will often clash with one another. The Aries is ruled by Mars which is the planet of IDGAF and the ego, so they often think that they are right even when they are not. They will start to get on the Cancer’s nerves when they start becoming messy and leaving their stuff laying around.
Cancers are domesticated creatures and need to have their home be a clean sanctuary that they can come to after a long day’s work. Since they are ruled by the Moon, their moods move in cycles and that will make the Arie’s head spin. The emotional response that the Cancer will give in reaction to the Aries’ erratic and sometimes irresponsible ways will get ugly over time. They will never be able to meet each other’s needs because their personalities play by completely different rules.
9. Cancer & Aquarius – Can’t Meet Each Other’s Needs
Out of all the signs in the zodiac, the Cancer is the one that takes their living situation seriously and their domestic life comes first before anything else. The Aquarius is community-oriented and feels the most at home when they feel that they have been accepted by a large group of people. They are both the types that like to hangout alone and need their space, which is good.
However, a Cancer craves emotional affection and attention and Aquarians can’t consistently provide that due to their unpredictable, detached nature. An Aquarius craves variety in their life and they are social creatures and that may come off as chaotic and overwhelming to the Cancer. The Cancer needs a private space with an intimate loved one to live in their shell. This will make the Aquarius feel smothered.
8. Capricorn & Leo – Both Need To Be In Charge
This is a pairing that will be a big hit or miss. Either they will be married happily ever after or go through an ugly breakup. Both of these signs like to be in charge but they go about it in different approaches. They both value high social status and prestige. The Leo uses charm and charisma to showboat their greatness to the world.
The Capricorn, on the other hand, tends to be down to earth and collectively planning the next strategy. The Capricorn will want to have every detail of the move and living situation planned out.
The Leo is spontaneous and will get bored with having any obligation and will leave the Capricorn to deal with all the grunt work. Though Capricorns come off as reserved, they don’t like being treated as pushovers. This will be a back and forth power struggle that they will either learn to work through or cut their losses and end the relationship.
7. Virgo & Sagittarius – Domestic Wildfire
These two signs will struggle to be on the same page and meeting each other on the same wavelength. The free-spirited Sagittarius likes to fly by the seat of their pants which makes them terrible at making plans and sticking to them. This will make the Virgo feel like they are being flaked on and that the Sagittarius doesn’t see them as important.
The cautious and reserved Virgo likes to make plans because this makes them more productive and they will expect their partner to do the same. The Sagittarius, even if they love the Virgo to death will be seriously lacking in this department. The Sagittarius doesn’t like rules and restrictions so they will feel their Virgo partner is being a strict parent with their need to be organized and on schedule. All in all, these two will frustrate each other.
6. Gemini & Scorpio – Will Wear Each Other Out
To quote Cool Hand Luke, “what we have here is a failure to communicate.” Yes, this zodiac combination will struggle to communicate which is the most important factor in a relationship that tests whether it will work out or not. Their differences will be what causes their initial attraction as well as their downfall. Geminis are chatterboxes and talk frequently. There are seldom ever any secrets kept with Geminis because they feel the need to share their business with everybody.
This will annoy the secretive Scorpio because they will question whether or not if they can trust their Gemini partner with anything that they share with them in confidence. Scorpios require a lot of alone time and the social Gemini simply does not understand their need for seclusion. They will get frustrated with the Scorpio holding back information from them because that is what they need to keep their relationship going.
5. Sagittarius & Gemini – Opposites Don’t Attract
The match between a Gemini and a Sagittarius will seem like a compatible one on the very surface. However, the see the world through completely different lenses. After all, they are opposite signs. The Gemini is community-oriented and pays attention to the details that exist within their own logical boundaries. The Sagittarius thinks in more broad terms and is always seeking to break boundaries.
Geminis care a lot about what other people think about them so they are careful to watch what they say. Sagitarrians are opinionated and blunt so their comments might hurt the feelings of the Gemini. Their forward nature could offend the Gemini and since the Gemini likes to be neutral, they might feel hurt that the Gemini is not coming to defend their opinion.
4. Libra & Cancer – Unbalanced Relationship
If these two are to live together in a peaceful environment that they both crave, they have to know 100% that they are completely in love with each other. However, if either one have the tiniest bit of doubt then this is when the problems with arise. Cancer is the one that will create the beautiful home that the Libra will admire, but the Libra will want to venture outside the home in search of an active social life.
This might come as an insult to Cancer, who always wants to have their Libra partner home for Netflix & Chill night sessions. The Libra as the idealist will want to have his cake and eat it too. They will want to have the freedom to go out and party with their friends while having the comfort of coming home to their Cancer partner making them dinner. This will lead to make the sensitive and emotional Cancer feel unloved and unappreciated.
3. Scorpio & Aquarius – Not On The Same Page
This is another pairing where the two signs will struggle when it comes to communication. The Aquarian is used to having a lot of freedom when they are single and living alone. It will be a huge adjustment for them when their Scorpio partner wants to know where they are. The Scorpio can have a possessive side and that will build some resentment towards the Aquarius making them think that they distrust them.
Despite their differences, the biggest thing that they share in common is their need to rebel and go against the grain. Though this will be exciting at the beginning of the relationship, it won’t work so well in cohabitation. They will eventually turn against each other seeing the other person as the source of their worry and anxiety. On top of that, they are both fixed signs meaning that they are both stubborn and unrelenting.
2. Aquarius & Taurus – Won’t Budge Or Compromise
Both of these signs are fixed and have differing mentalities. Though both signs can be stubborn, the Taurus takes the cake when it comes to not budging. The bull is rigid and set in their ways and the free-spirited Aquarius will not like this at all. When they both refuse to compromise and try to see eye to eye on some serious topics that they both hold dear, there will be a failure to understand one another.
The Taurus craves stability and someone to come home to who will always be there. The independent nature of the Aquarius gives them the desire to roam and have an active social life. The Taurus will try to possess the Aquarius giving them rules and boundaries and that will not bode over very well. The Aquarius with their rebellious nature are sure to anger the Taurus by doing the exact opposite of what they want just to stick it to them.
1. Pisces & Gemini – Crazy In Different Ways
There is always much chemistry between a Libra and Pisces because they are both romantic and whimsical people who love to indulge in a fantasy world that only the two of them have created. They will enjoy each other’s company and the romance between the two will be nothing short of magical. The problems arise when neither parties want to address serious issues and try to escape the confrontation rather than addressing it.
Once they move in together, the fun times will begin until they come to a screeching halt. Which is all fine and dandy except when the real world starts to come calling and they don’t want to acknowledge it. This self-made fantasy world will act a a guise to real problems in the relationship. This will eventually lead to both parties feeling like they are not on the same page anymore.
