You may notice an unusual energy ebbing and flowing through your love life like a confused shoreline right now. On one hand, you’re feeling more ambitious about matters of the heart than you have in a long time, but on the other, you feel oddly held back and unable to make progress.
Don’t fret, because there is time to discover what is blocking your momentum, even if you have to deep-dive into your subconscious to understand the nuances at play. Resist blaming a lover for your issue, however, because they might just be a reflection of your own unprocessed turmoil.
What are the things that you keep hidden from your partner? More importantly, ask yourself why it is that you hide those things from them? These are all relevant questions to contemplate today as the Moon is in Aries and in your 12th house.
It is so common and natural that we feel scared or uncomfortable sharing certain things with our lovers. We have been conditioned that we shouldn’t share specific things with our partners because otherwise they may leave us or judge us.
This mentality doesn’t allow true connection and intimacy to occur in a relationship as those partnerships are based on trust and transparency. This is a great time to practice being more vulnerable with your partner and share those aspects of yourself that you generally hide in the name of bringing you closer to one another.
If matters of the heart have felt turbulent or chaotic recently, then you could be willing to ‘go with the flow’ rather than resist what’s changing.
But maintaining a comfortable status quo needs you to embrace the boost to your feel-good factor. Negative energy could try to get a look-in, too. So, when it comes to forming or strengthening a connection, make your choices carefully.