Somehow, in some way, something connected with matters of the heart requires you to look beyond what’s obvious or possibly stay one step ahead of a particular situation.
This might involve anticipating a response or reaction from a loved one and being prepared to deal with it swiftly.
But it could also involve you taking the lead to steer a situation toward a calmer and more pleasurable destination.
It’s frustrating to deal with your partner if they’re being aggro about sharing their harsh viewpoints today.
You won’t change their mind by digging in your heels, nor will you make the angst go away by fighting with them.
If you’re texting a sweetheart and it all goes sideways, remind yourself that you cannot see facial expressions nor hear their tone of voice during your electronic interactions.
No matter what ickiness you might be facing with a love interest right now, it’s smart to go to your separate corners until the bad vibes die down. This too shall pass.
Do you feel that your romantic partnerships bring you closer to your values? Does your partner have values that are in alignment with yours? These are necessary questions to reflect on today as the Moon is in Gemini and in your 2nd house.
It happens a lot that people end up in relationships that are not necessarily bringing them close to what they hold dear in their lives.
Naturally, they end up being unfulfilled, resentful and those connections don’t last very long. Ask yourself how you can make sure that the partners you attract have (more or less) similar values as yours.
Of course, you will always have certain things that you disagree on, what matters the most is that those things are not fundamentals and that both you and your lover are able to respect one another despite your differences.
Beyond that, how can you learn to not be too rigid and learn to adopt different values that you may end up finding true to you?