If you’re not feeling well and just need some time to yourself, you don’t need to get permission from someone you’re involved with today.
However, you might feel mildly judged for needing some time to deal with what is ailing you, and you’re not going to like having your actions scrutinized.
Bad relationship vibes will only make things worse, so make sure that you let your mate know that what you’re going through is real and that you need support. Although you might feel cranky right now, ask for some understanding and compassion nicely, and you will get it.
Self-control or restraint might be difficult to summon with matters of the heart. But it is in your best interests to do so because you could go overboard in a way that leaves a lover’s or potential sweetheart’s head spinning.
Whether you’re single or attached, patience and setting or resetting boundaries could help you keep things manageable. Small steps, not strides, are needed now.
The Moon is in Libra and in your 6th house today, however it is also squaring Pluto in your 9th house.
This planetary configuration is reminding you that while yes, it is important to take care of the day to day aspects that are necessary to tend to in order to have a healthy, working relationship, it is also just as important to take care of the “higher” dimensions of your partnership.
By higher, one means the more cosmic and spiritual parts of it. It is important that you feel you and your lover have a connection that goes beyond the material, emotional and mental level, as that allows the foundation of your connection to be rooted in something much deeper and less temporary.