As smart as you are with your money, you’d be wise to think twice before lending a chunk of it to someone you’re involved with at this time.
Complicating a growing romantic friendship in this way is a mistake you should avoid for now, if possible. If a companion comes right out and asks you for a loan today, be cautious: Make your terms very clear, or complications or power dynamic issues could ensue in the future.
If you can, find a balance between your need for security and your desire to help someone you love out of a jam. It IS possible.
The fact that you’re likely to know what’s best for a lover is one thing. But getting them to understand this without you coming across as interfering might be another matter.
Try to make clear that you’ve thought through, step-by-step, a strategy that the one you love should adopt to bring a necessary improvement. That’s something they might appreciate more.
The Moon is in Scorpio and in your 7th house of committed partnerships, but it is also squaring Saturn in your 10th house. Having a common project that your work towards with your romantic partner, generally creates a much healthier and successful relationship dynamic.
This is because this allows you to pursue something that calls you and not feeling like it is at odds with your romantic life but rather compliments it. This also gives you something to connect with your partner through.
So many relationships don’t succeed because the people involved don’t feel like they can relate to their partner on a bigger level, one that extends outside of the personal relationship.