Sags have their traits or qualities that are more like a moral code for them than a set of “rules.” These traits or moral codes that every Sagittarius have are what you will want to know and understand if you’re going to have and keep any relationship with them.
This zodiac sign is a curious soul and they are very assertive. They have a compassionate soul and impeccable discernment. But there are a few things that you must never say to them as that can hurt them or bring you on their wrong side, which you probably do not want. So here is a list that may help you in dealing with Sagittarius, the right way.
1. “You better do this!”
You might want to rethink that command.
One thing a Sagittarius can not stand being said to them or around them is being told what they can or can not do. The immediate thought that comes to them is, “what right is it of you to say that?”
If you want them to do something, it is better to suggest it or to make them believe that it was their idea in the first place.
2. Why don’t you ask for help?
Sagittarians carry their hurt very close to their hearts. They find it very hard to ask for help or even articulate how truly they are feeling. They feel people closest to them should understand telepathically how they feel and feel shy about sharing their true emotions.
3. Why Do You Travel So Much?
Sagittarians are the ultimate seekers. As the zodiac’s traveler, Sagittarius is the ultimate free spirit: optimistic, open-minded and ambitious. To keep a Sagittarius engaged, be willing to go on outdoor dates, something wild and wacky like paragliding, surfing, having a picnic by the riverside, anything.
They love activities. These are the easiest people to get a date with but don’t think that this is written in stone, Enjoy the time you’ve spent with Sagittarius and be prepared to move on or at least share them with others because they will be doing the same. All in good fun.
4. Trying to change their wild nature
Anyone born under this sign will never fall into the straight lace, always predictable lifestyle. You would be wasting your breath if you tried to talk them into having a life that they do not want.
Sags are the type of people who believe in fate. Letting fate take its course can be viewed as a massive influence on their wild nature and how they navigate through life. Think of them having more a rough draft outline of how their life will go then a final draft.
On the other hand, do not think that someone with Sagittarius in their chart or as their sun sign can not be faithful or have long and happy, fulfilling relationships because they absolutely can. Just plan on your life to be filled with more adventure at times than others.
5. Please… sit
Sitting around and doing nothing is one of the most difficult tasks for Sagittarius people. They will do anything to get out of that mundane way of leaving so if you are one of those couch potatoes, Sagittarius is not someone you can be friends with. “Don’t expect your Sag to stick around long because they’re just too busy and on the go. But DO invite them in to sample your newest tea while kneeling on your prayer mat from that far off distant Asian land. Your Sag friend has a pension for travel and fun little knick-knacks from halfway around the world”, says Elaine.
6. Aren’t You A Little Disrespectful?
They like honesty, so they do not keep it from you. They will tell you all of it point-blank. So if you are looking for some compliments when you feel insecure, consulting Sagittarius might not be the best way about it. So people think they are tactless, but really, they do not want to delve into the facade of complimenting when it means lying.
7. I just can’t stop crying
One of the things you should remember not to do when it comes to a Sagittarius is being down and blue all the time! This is just not acceptable to them. Not that they are not going to help you through difficulties, just do not count on them when you need a shoulder to cry on! Elaine says: “Sagittarians love jovial dispositions. This doesn’t mean they won’t help you. They are very dedicated to serving the populace. Just keep your sniffles to yourself and crack a smile once in a while… now that’s a good friend.”
8. Commitment Phobia!
Independence is Sagittarius’ principle; they crave adventure and excitement and welcome change with open arms. They are the biggest commitment phoebe of all zodiac signs. Romantic relationships often cause problems down the road because you hate the idea of staying with one person, having a family and living in one place forever, tied down to one person.
Sagittarius is the sign of the philosopher and the explorer, they will go as far as the road will go and explore every corner thoroughly in their ever eternal search for wisdom. Freedom is so important to Sagittarius that they will actually make decisions based on the amount of freedom that is given the choice they have made, as a result, sometimes a good opportunity is turned down because of its high commitment need, but this is their choice so it is a good choice for them.