When a lover says something insensitive to you, you have a decision to make.
You must decide whether you believe they purposefully meant to hurt you, or perhaps they momentarily spaced out and ditched their etiquette, not realizing the harm their words were causing you.
If you can summon forgiveness quickly, then let this situation go with wisdom in your heart. In matters of the heart, giving the one you love the benefit of the doubt will help more than you know.
If the heat is intensifying in your emotional world or love life, then you can always step back and remove yourself from it if necessary.
You probably wouldn’t need much encouragement to focus instead on your professional or travel aspirations, especially if your love life has been a source of frustration recently.
A love-related issue could benefit from allowing it time to progress on its own without you believing you must rush in to resolve it. Distance brings essential objectivity.
The Moon is in Cancer and in your 3rd house of communication today, however it is also opposing Pluto in your 9th house.
This configuration is highlighting the importance of feeling a spiritual connection as well as a mental one with your lover.
It happens a lot that people don’t end up feeling fulfilled and connected with their lovers without knowing why. So often the reason behind that is because the lack a level of connection that goes beyond the physical, mental and emotional one.
That would be the spiritual/philosophical level. Do you feel that your life views/beliefs are compatible with your partners or even like you can share those parts of yourself with them?
If not, get curious about how you can cultivate more of that in your romantic partnership.