Taurus people in general, not just women in general, are very basic creatures. Some horoscope signs are complicated and in many cases, they live in their own little world but with Taurus, it’s pretty much cut and dry.
In fact, if you’re going to reduce what Taurus people like, the list is actually quite short.
To truly understand the Taurus in terms of attraction and what excites them, basically can be boiled down to three things: food, money, and sex. That’s it.
Pretty straightforward, right? Pretty easy list, right?
The reason for this of course is that the Taurus is a materialist sign. While other signs are all about grasping for the starts, looking for greens, finding ideas to turn into reality, trying to live your life by ideas; the Taurus is not about any of that.
Instead, the Taurus is a bull with four legs planted firmly in the ground. In other words, the Taurus is all about practicality. The Taurus is all about what you see is what you get.
This can be a negative thing, and this can be a positive thing. I’ve written earlier about the negative consequences of the Taurus nature. But when it comes to sex, this is a very positive thing because one of the most common reasons why people have the sexual fulfillment they deserve is because they are afraid to communicate.
In many cases, they feel conflicted. They think “Am I a dirty person for wanting things done this way or am I a dirty person for wanting to orgasm for more than ten minutes?
Is there something wrong with me if I want my lover to explore certain parts of my body, or I want to explore certain parts of his body?
The Taurus naturally doesn’t deal with any of that. The Taurus like her food great tasting, her money stacked to the sky, and her sex hot and furious. Very basic stuff :).
And this is why it’s pretty much a forgone conclusion that at least as far as the people born under the Taurus symbol are concerned that all matters of sexuality are primarily a technique. This would be shocking to many people because hey; a real understanding of sexuality must begin and end with spiritual meaning and component. Really.
Because if you want real fulfilling sex it’s not just your body but engaging your mind, your heart, your soul; and it really takes sex from an almost automatic physical reaction where your body responds a certain way to really something that opens a gateway to a higher level of happiness, fulfillment, and contentment.
The Taurus woman would definitely be happy with just amazingly breathtaking sex, in other words, 100% technique. To put it in the simplest terms possible, the Taurus female is actually looking at sex the same way she looks at social relationships, career, personal finances, and other aspects of her life.
SHE’S LOOKING AT APPEARANCES AND PRACTICALITY
Just as she tackles money in a very straightforward way. What’s the answer to money? Very simple. Make a lot of it or earn a lot of it. That’s it.
No mysteries. No hand wringing. No chest beating. Just go out there and do it.
The same cut and dry and highly practical attitude apply to their view of sex. So if you’re a Taurus looking for maximum sexual compatibility, you need to lay it out, in no uncertain terms, to your partner what you’re looking for, and you’re looking for great execution.
You must not be shy about describing the sensations, the feelings, or even the process of getting you to feel the way you need to feel.
On the other hand, if you are the non-Taurus partner, and you want to please your Taurus female partner, understand that technique and execution are very important with them. Seduction is very important.
You have to remember that women are not built like men. Men are very easy to heat up. In fact, they can cut straight to the chase and get over it in a very short period of time.
Women have to build up. There has to be a certain emotional level for all the physical signs to appear and then the sexual aspect has to last a certain time for orgasm to even be possible.
There is a scientific evidence that came up that there is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm. The G-spot doesn’t exist so we’re back to the clitoris. Whenever we’re talking about the clitoris, it’s all about technique. It’s all about the rhythm.
Many guys think that this is just kind of like an afterthought. It’s kind of like a halo effect of the overall motion of sex. In other words, they’re basically chasing after their own pleasure and the female’s pleasure kind of like a by-product that’s taken for granted.
I’m sorry to break this to you but if that’s your attitude towards sex, you better step your game up if you are in an intimate with a Taurus woman in your life because that’s not just good enough.
That’s not going to cut it. You have to put her needs first.
The great thing about Taurus people in general is that they’re actually easy to figure out. If you really want to figure your maximum sexual compatibility with the Taurus is basically you just have to step your game up and put her needs first.
Make it a point that she climaxes first before you do.
The good news is that since it’s all about technique, there are many mental and emotional practices developed in the far east, Tantric, for example, that can help men truly please their women.
We’re not just talking about oral sex. We’re not just talking about oral exploration and titillation. That’s just the tip of the iceberg.
We’re talking about setting the right mood, saying the right words, bonding with your woman on a spiritual level and emotional level so that she can fully open and fully comfortable and at one with you. The sex is really just the gravy. That’s just like the cherry on top.
The real sex is the bonding of souls because if you think that sex is just conquest or just bodily reaction, I’m sorry you’re just cheating yourself of like a truly immense and life-changing experience because once you experience real sex that engages you and climaxes you on so many levels not just physical, then you don’t want to turn back.
It changes your life. It makes you see the world in a totally different way. It changes how you treat people. It changes how you look at yourself.
It’s not a surprise that a lot of psychoanalysis in the early 1900s turned on the concept of sex because when people were able to have a healthy, mental, emotional, and spiritual relationship with a concept of sex in their lives, a lot of the other bottlenecks in their lives started being resolved.
And it’s really sad that now the sex is looked at as like a to-do list item or some sort of commodity or just something you chase after, and the by-product is your partner climaxing.
It’s really sad that people approach it that because if you look at it really as a joint project with that special person in your life, it can really have far reaching consequences that go beyond the bedroom.
This is the key to the best sexual compatibility for Taurus women. /Imelda