You may believe that being stubborn about a relationship matter makes you appear strong, but the opposite is true today.

Being flexible about your current relationship circumstances will serve you well, as will lowering your defenses.

The one you love isn’t trying to force you to do something you don’t want to do; they may simply be trying to collaborate with you.

Ultimately, you’re in charge right now, but you can choose to be adaptable and agreeable, if that’s how you roll.

You might believe something that brings pleasure or comfort to you could be something a loved one might not be interested in.

However, they could be keener than you’re giving them credit for being. Both of you could benefit in a delightful way from indulging yourselves, and perhaps with a more than a little of what you fancy!

Is it easy for you to experience intimacy with your romantic partner? What are the things that scare you the most in your partnership that may be preventing you from experiencing as much closeness and depth with your lover?

Ask yourself these important questions today as the Moon is in Sag and in your 8th house. True intimacy is being able to share those “darker” or less happy parts of yourself with your significant other.

Unfortunately, this is something we are not conditioned to do, we are told directly or indirectly by society that there are parts of ourselves that are best not to be shared with others, because otherwise they will leave us or judge us.

Therefore, this is a great time for you to practice bringing more of that dialogue between you and your partner, making sure that both of you feel safe and trust one another to bring those aspects of yourselves into the partnership.